Working for a gay-friendly Sweden

Sweden is one of the most gay-friendly countries in the world. During the glorious annual Stockholm Pride week, people celebrate and party on the streets. What is it like to be gay in Sweden the other 51 weeks of the year?

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Working for a gay-friendly Sweden

Sweden is one of the most gay-friendly countries in the world. During the glorious annual Stockholm Pride week, people celebrate and party on the streets. What is it like to be gay in Sweden the other 51 weeks of the year?

No room for discrimination

The Stockholm Pride parade usually attracts around 45,000 participants and 400,000 spectators, one of several signs that LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer) people are a welcomed part of Swedish society.

The LGBTQ community is obviously not one homogenous group, and while some are happy and content, others are perhaps less so. Still, laws and regulations have a big impact on everyday life, and over the last decades Sweden has taken important steps to ensure that LGBTQ people enjoy the same rights and opportunities as everyone else.

Most recently, gender-neutral wedding laws (2009), adoption rights for gay and lesbian couples (2003), insemination rights for lesbians (2005), and a prohibition of discrimination based on sexual orientation added to the Swedish constitution (2011) are some of the laws that have been passed.

The European Region of the International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association (ILGA-Europe) looks at legislation to rank countries in an annual review called Rainbow Europe.  Sweden ranks fourth of 49 European countries.

But it would be smug to say that there is no room for improvement, regardless of rankings. The legal benchmarks are steps, not the final goal, in Sweden’s strive towards equality.

Ulrika Westerlund, former chairwoman of RFSL, the Swedish Federation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer Rights, pointed out that in particular transgender rights need to be looked over. Sweden was the first country in the world in 1972 to allow for the legal change of gender identity. This daring legal move unfortunately also contained some drawbacks, including mandatory sterilisation, which were not removed until 2013.

Changes still await

Swedes generally have a high level of confidence in government authorities. This trust grows out of a long history of public transparency, egalitarian politics and laws and institutions that protect the rights of individuals. The ombudsman system – public agencies that represent the interest of individuals – has been in effect since 1809.

If a person feels they have been discriminated against, they can turn to the Equality Ombudsman (Diskrimineringsombudsmannen, DO), a government agency that works against all kinds of discrimination.

Eva Nikell at DO says: ‘Some cases we handle have to do with how people are treated at health care centres. The law is clear in that discrimination is not acceptable, but then things such as ignorance and prejudices come into play.

‘Health care professionals can, for example, make illogical connections between a disease, even a common cold, and the patient’s sex identity or expression. Or have an attitude which creates discriminatory decisions towards lesbian women who want to become pregnant. There is no requirement for health care professionals to have knowledge about LGBTQ-related issues.’

Laws remain laws, in short. The passing of them has not completely eliminated discrimination against people due to sexual orientation or transgender identity.

The European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights LGBT survey from 2012 showed that 35 per cent of respondents from Sweden felt discriminated against or harassed in the last 12 months on the grounds of sexual orientation. Not a very flattering figure but still better compared with that year’s EU average of 47 per cent.

Since the start in 1998, Stockholm Pride has grown into one of Stockholm’s largest and most appreciated festivals and the largest Pride celebration in the Nordic region.

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Reaching out

What makes Sweden one of the most gay-friendly countries in the world is that people continue to fight for further improvements.

In addition to RFSL, there are a number of LGBTQ organisations ranging from those affiliated with a political party to youth organisations and organisations for a particular occupation, such as the Swedish gay police association.

Most of these organisations work with events, campaigns, information, education and support. Together they build networks, often in solidarity with international LGBTQ movements. Stockholm Pride also participates, for example through the Stockholm Pride international solidarity fund, which was founded in 2006.

Many organisations in Sweden fight for the right for people who are persecuted in their home countries to get asylum in Sweden, with homosexual acts still outlawed in approximately 80 countries and territories around the world (Sweden legalised it in 1944).

Several Swedish organisations and institutions dedicate resources to intensify co-operation with human rights activists in other countries. Swedish law also states that the Migration Agency will give asylum to people who are persecuted in their homeland due to sexual orientation and gender.

Rainbow Mass

Religion is often cited as a reason why people object to homosexuality and transgender people. The national Church of Sweden, however, has taken a clear stance for love in all its forms.

Shortly after gender-neutral marriage laws came in effect in 2009, the Church of Sweden permitted same-sex ceremonies. Individual priests have the right to withstand but it is then up to the parish to find someone who will perform the ceremony.

It is not surprising then that the Church of Sweden is represented at Stockholm Pride or that they arrange Rainbow Mass that mirrors every person’s equal worth, also from an LGBTQ perspective. Malin Strindberg, Priest at the Rainbow Mass, says: ‘Most priests are wise enough to understand that homosexual love is worth every bit as much as any other kind of love.

‘I work with the Rainbow Mass because people who define themselves as LGBTQ have lived under oppression for a long time. It has also been a question within the church for a long time. I do what I believe Jesus wants me to do. I believe Jesus would stand here with me.’

Last updated: 4 April 2018

Rikard Lagerberg

Rikard Lagerberg

Rikard Lagerberg is a writer living in the middle of Sweden.